{"id":11647,"date":"2018-04-27T10:45:26","date_gmt":"2018-04-27T08:45:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/?page_id=11647"},"modified":"2018-04-27T11:52:46","modified_gmt":"2018-04-27T09:52:46","slug":"voor-d","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/index.php\/recent\/faits-divers\/voor-d\/","title":{"rendered":"Voor D."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><em><strong>Voor D.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Versteende-bomen-Molenplas-Ohe-en-Laak-IMG_3400.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"11661\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/index.php\/recent\/faits-divers\/voor-d\/versteende-bomen-molenplas-ohe-en-laak-img_3400\/#main\" 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data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Versteende-bomen-Molenplas-Ohe-en-Laak-IMG_3400.jpg?fit=640%2C480&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-11661 size-large\" title=\"Voor D. | Versteende bomen, Molenplas, Ohe\u0301 en Laak, (bvhh.nu 2018)\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Versteende-bomen-Molenplas-Ohe-en-Laak-IMG_3400.jpg?resize=640%2C480&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Voor D. | Versteende bomen, Molenplas, Ohe\u0301 en Laak, (bvhh.nu 2018)\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Versteende-bomen-Molenplas-Ohe-en-Laak-IMG_3400.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Versteende-bomen-Molenplas-Ohe-en-Laak-IMG_3400.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Versteende-bomen-Molenplas-Ohe-en-Laak-IMG_3400.jpg?resize=600%2C450&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Versteende-bomen-Molenplas-Ohe-en-Laak-IMG_3400.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Versteende-bomen-Molenplas-Ohe-en-Laak-IMG_3400.jpg?w=1969&amp;ssl=1 1969w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Versteende-bomen-Molenplas-Ohe-en-Laak-IMG_3400.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><em>&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Ik begroef mijn vader hoogzomer<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Jij nam afscheid begin van de lente<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Zomaar een tijdsbepaling<\/em><br \/>\n<em> in iets wat geen tijd meer kent<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Brengt het berusting, een vergeten<\/em><br \/>\n<em> of juist een diepe scherpe rouw?<\/em><br \/>\n<em> De eerste man in ons leven<\/em><br \/>\n<em> De hand waarin die van ons verdween<\/em><br \/>\n<em> de armen als een beschermende kom<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Een hoofd vol weetjes en verhalen<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Een omslag in de puberteit?<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Schampsteen of vraagbaak?<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Dialoog of woordenstrijd?<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Voorwaardenscheppend voor groei<\/em><br \/>\n<em> tot grootvader van onze kinderen<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Een maatje, een mentor, een mens<\/em><br \/>\n<em> werd zelf hulpbehoevend<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Zo sleet de tijd tot dit moment<\/em><br \/>\n<em> Dona eis requiem<\/em><br \/>\n<em> &#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Bloeiende-meidoorn-Aesterbergse-plas-Ohe-en-Laak-bvhh.nu-2018-rond.png?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"11665\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/index.php\/recent\/faits-divers\/voor-d\/bloeiende-meidoorn-aesterbergse-plas-ohe-en-laak-bvhh-nu-2018-rond\/#main\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Bloeiende-meidoorn-Aesterbergse-plas-Ohe-en-Laak-bvhh.nu-2018-rond.png?fit=948%2C948&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"948,948\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Bloeiende meidoorn, Aesterbergse plas, Ohe en Laak (bvhh.nu 2018)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Bloeiende-meidoorn-Aesterbergse-plas-Ohe-en-Laak-bvhh.nu-2018-rond.png?fit=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Bloeiende-meidoorn-Aesterbergse-plas-Ohe-en-Laak-bvhh.nu-2018-rond.png?fit=640%2C640&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-11665\" title=\"Voor D. | Bloeiende meidoorn, Aesterbergse plas, Ohe en Laak (bvhh.nu 2018)\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Bloeiende-meidoorn-Aesterbergse-plas-Ohe-en-Laak-bvhh.nu-2018-rond.png?resize=399%2C399&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Voor D. | Bloeiende meidoorn, Aesterbergse plas, Ohe en Laak (bvhh.nu 2018)\" width=\"399\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Bloeiende-meidoorn-Aesterbergse-plas-Ohe-en-Laak-bvhh.nu-2018-rond.png?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Bloeiende-meidoorn-Aesterbergse-plas-Ohe-en-Laak-bvhh.nu-2018-rond.png?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Bloeiende-meidoorn-Aesterbergse-plas-Ohe-en-Laak-bvhh.nu-2018-rond.png?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Bloeiende-meidoorn-Aesterbergse-plas-Ohe-en-Laak-bvhh.nu-2018-rond.png?w=948&amp;ssl=1 948w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 399px) 100vw, 399px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">____________________________<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><em>Postscriptum \u2014<\/em><\/span>\u00a0Je vader verliezen doe je maar een keer. Misschien dat ik daarom aan mijn vriendin D. schreef: &#8216;Ik was al een paar keer begonnen aan een condoleancebrief, maar alles klonk zo nietszeggend. Toen heb ik het maar op deze manier gedaan&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Wat prachtig en treffend&#8217;, schreef ze terug, &#8216;Dank!&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>B.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/BVHH_logo_basis1-rapport-spiegel.png?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"6772\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/?attachment_id=6772#main\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/BVHH_logo_basis1-rapport-spiegel.png?fit=368%2C420&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"368,420\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"BVHH_logo_basis1-rapport-spiegel\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/BVHH_logo_basis1-rapport-spiegel.png?fit=368%2C420&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/BVHH_logo_basis1-rapport-spiegel.png?fit=368%2C420&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-6772\" title=\"Vragen? Stuur een mailtje naar bernadette@vanhellenberghubar.org!\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/BVHH_logo_basis1-rapport-spiegel.png?resize=71%2C81&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Vragen? Stuur een mailtje naar bernadette@vanhellenberghubar.org!\" width=\"71\" height=\"81\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/BVHH_logo_basis1-rapport-spiegel.png?resize=263%2C300&amp;ssl=1 263w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.vanhellenberghubar.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/BVHH_logo_basis1-rapport-spiegel.png?w=368&amp;ssl=1 368w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 71px) 100vw, 71px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Voor D. &#8230; Ik begroef mijn vader hoogzomer Jij nam afscheid begin van de lente Zomaar een tijdsbepaling in iets wat geen tijd meer kent Brengt het berusting, een vergeten of juist een diepe scherpe rouw? De eerste man in ons leven De hand waarin die van ons verdween de armen als een beschermende kom [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":11661,"parent":1301,"menu_order":63,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"tags":[1495,185,857,1104],"class_list":["post-11647","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-afscheid","tag-requiem","tag-tijd","tag-verhalen"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Voor D. - VanHellenbergHubar.org<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Voor D.\u2014 Je vader verliezen doe je maar een keer. Misschien dat ik daarom aan mijn vriendin D. schreef: &#039;Ik was al een paar keer begonnen aan een condoleancebrief, maar alles klonk zo nietszeggend. 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